branch-3.1: [fix](grace-stop) remove heartbeat condition apache#58019 (…

…apache#58055)

Cherry-picked from apache#58019

Co-authored-by: Mingyu Chen (Rayner) <morningman@163.com>

[Fix](filecache) Avoid read peer in local mode apache#58063 (apache#5…

…8062)

pick apache#58063

branch-3.1: [fix](nereids) allow merge project for java udf (apache#5…

…7102)

branch-3.1: [fix](sc) Skip empty rowset version hole filling for vers…

…ions <= alter_version apache#56209 (apache#56212)

cherry pick from apache#56209