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The first reflection.... The two places where I have spent the most time in the last eight years are spaces at the threshold of one world and the next. The hospital stands between the world of life and death, and the prayer space between the physical and the spiritual.
We live in a world that calls for action, for progress. In medicine, there is a need to diagnose, to prescribe, to fire off orders for an array of results in the hope that results will provide clarity. A certainty provided by data and science. In many cases this is indeed appropriate. But there are times when patients require presence, someone to listen, and the reassurance of being heard, particularly when that path forward fades into that great beyond.
The same tendency characterises communities of faith, a pull to move forward, to amend practices and traditions, and resolve tensions and issues which often have no clear resolution. Places of faith are also liminal spaces: they lie within the physical world, but in their design, atmosphere and function provoke in us a longing for a place that exists beyond it.
That longing is itself unresolved, and unresolvable, a threshold to be inhabited in our everyday lives. But these spaces ask something else of us. They ask for patience, where patience is the best course of action, and for presence, where resolution comes through the ability to remain at this threshold. And so be it in the hospital or in the courtyard, one must listen, with empathy, with understanding, and with the intent of hearing, even as the longing for what lies beyond remains, rightly, unanswered.