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Comment "HEAL" and let's work together on rebuildi

Comment "HEAL" and let's work together on rebuilding YOU.

Because there’s a version of me I had to LET GO of.

The woman who lived through my marriage to the real Wolf of Wall Street.

That was the version of me who poured her energy into trying to keep everything together.

But healing forced me to face something painful. I was so focused on helping him become better that I stopped asking what I needed to heal.

And I know you're doing the same thing. So I want to ask you something different today.

What if the energy you spent on him, went toward YOU instead?

You are worth the same patience you handed him for free.
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He KNOWS how his actions hurt you. The apology yo

He KNOWS how his actions hurt you.

The apology you keep waiting for may never come because, in a his version of the story, he’s the ONE who was wronged.

Stop over-explaining yourself to a narcissist who uses your guilt to pull you back in. Especially when children are involved.

You can love your children deeply and still stop giving someone access to you through them.

Your compassion is beautiful. Just make sure it’s not the thing keeping you stuck.

💗Comment “HEAL” if you’re ready to rebuild your self-trust and heal from the manipulation you survived.

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THIS is the reason you can't just "get over" him.

THIS is the reason you can't just "get over" him.

Because he doesn't hurt you every day. If he did, you would have left already.

You are not weak and addicted to him. You are addicted to the RELIEF that only shows up after the pain he creates.

So how do you start breaking the cycle? Stop only remembering the moments that made you stay. Start looking at the full pattern.

And remind yourself of the whole story when the good moments pull you back in.

Comment "HEAL" and I'll be glad to guide you in your healing journey.

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Here’s what’s REALLY happening underneath it. Acc

Here’s what’s REALLY happening underneath it.

Accountability means sitting with the discomfort of knowing you hurt someone. But for a narcissist, that discomfort can feel like an attack.

So instead of facing what he did, he shifts the blame fast. Instinctively. Almost like a reflex he doesn't even have to think about.

That's why you have to pay attention to what happens after arguments.

That shift is the part you need to notice. It tells you whether he’s taking accountability or trying to escape it.

💗Comment “HEAL” and step inside my community, if you’re ready to stop getting pulled into the cycle and start trusting what you see, feel, and know.

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Comment "HEAL" to join a community where I can gui

Comment "HEAL" to join a community where I can guide you through your healing journey. Because planning your safety shouldn't be something you have to carry alone.

Watching this scene from Escaping Dad, I felt it in my chest. This is exactly why leaving isn't as simple as walking out the door.

I was terrified when I was still married to the Wolf. It took me years and for him to get arrested to actually get out.

So if you're in this right now, stop trying to make him understand. That energy isn't going to save you.

Wear the MASK if you have to. Compliance can be a keep you safe while you're quietly planning to leave.

Document everything. Reach out to people you actually trust. Build your plan carefully. Get professional support the moment you're able to.

Your safety comes before his understanding, every single time.

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Comment "HEAL" to join my community, where experts

Comment "HEAL" to join my community, where experts are guiding women every step of their healing journey.

And I was so grateful to have this important conversation with Wendy Behary about whether narcissists can actually change.

And yes, change is possible.
But real change requires something many pathological partners avoid the most. ACCOUNTABILITY.

A LOT of women get stuck waiting for the potential version of someone while suffering from the current version of them.

But YOUR life can't stay stuck while you wait for someone else to do the work they need to do.
Don’t build your future around his potential. Build it around the person you’re becoming.

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Comment "HEAL" if you're ready to take the next st

Comment "HEAL" if you're ready to take the next steps in your healing journey. You don't have to figure this out alone.

There's a REASON leaving isn't as simple as "just leave."

Because the CYCLE keeps pulling you back in. The good moments, apologies, and the promises that make you think, maybe this time will be different.

Over time, that confusion becomes the glue HOLDING you there.

But cement can crack. It doesn't matter how long you've been stuck or how hard you tried to make it work.

Healing starts with one decision, one small step back to yourself.

You're not trapped forever. You can break free.
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Dear younger Nae, I wish you could see this pictu

Dear younger Nae,

I wish you could see this picture right now. Because one day, you’re going to take a picture like this with the love of your life.

And for once, you won’t need to understand the room, his mood, or wonder what’s going to happen when the moment is over.

You’ll just be happy. REALLY HAPPY.

With John, you won’t have to beg to be loved, prove your worth, and wonder if you’re enough.

You’ll finally understand something you couldn’t see back then. Love was never supposed to feel like something you had to survive.

There is a version of you waiting on the other side of all of this. She gets to laugh without fear, to love without losing herself, and to take pictures with the man she loves.

You’re going to have a life you once couldn’t even imagine for yourself.

So please, keep going.

You have no idea yet how beautiful your life is going to become.

With love,
Older Nae 💓

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Comment “HEAL” and join my community where we help each other navigate healing from narcissistic abuse. You are not alone in this.

Comment "HEAL" to take the next step toward healin

Comment "HEAL" to take the next step toward healing, and I'll be glad to talk to you.

Because every time you made yourself smaller for a narcissist, he got to feel BIGGER. He learned that he could take without having to change.

He was using you to protect an ego that was NEVER your responsibility to build.

But here’s what I need you to remember. He did not take your ability to love or to show compassion.

Those parts of you are still yours. The difference is, now you get to stop giving them to someone who only knew how to consume them.

Now you get to pour that love back into YOU.
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It’s one of the MOST confusing things to experienc

It’s one of the MOST confusing things to experience.

I remember experiencing this myself. I knew there were things in the relationship that were hurting me, but I was still attached to the person I hoped he would become.

I kept HOLDING onto the good moments. I kept believing that if I loved harder, explained better, or tried more, things would change.

That’s what a trauma bond does.

So how do you start recognizing it? Pay attention to the patterns he’s showing.

And now that you can name it, you can start to heal from it.

This is exactly what we do inside Trauma Bond Recovery Community. It’s a safe space where you and other women can get access to the tools, guidance, and support you need to heal from your trauma bond.

💓 Comment “HEAL” and I’ll send you an invite..

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