
You are 23, freshly minted from college, a few months into your first job, and still getting used to the idea of no summer holidays. You’ve swapped your college ID card for an office access badge and your lecture notes for Excel sheets. What no one tells you is that the first 24 months of your career are not about salaries or titles or even job satisfaction. They are about the foundation for who you will become. This phase will shape your reputation, build your rhythm, and equip your toolbox. The resulting trajectory will either fast-track or sideline you. Here are 10 things I wish I had known at the beginning.
The fastest way to get noticed is to raise your hand when others look away. Volunteer for work outside your role definition. New hires often cling to their job descriptions. Don’t. ‘That’s not my job’ is a phrase that blocks learning and shrinks careers. A fixed definition locks you in a box while you build real value outside it. When you say ‘yes’ to chaotic tasks, boring coordination, grunt work, and grey zones, you earn trust, the currency of success.
Instead, become the person who can thrive and grow in every role. Be the person. Do the actions. Get the results. Start by showing up. Stay curious, speak well and help freely. Chase learning and learn fast. The working world does not give you marks. They give you trust, and that takes time, effort and intention.
Skip the solo desk lunch. Sit with someone new every week. Your lunch hour is probably the most important meeting of the day. Here, colleagues may talk about what’s going on, from power dynamics at work to your manager’s quirks to the team’s unwritten rules. This casual sitdown buys you clarity, confidence and free mentoring.
2.KNOW YOUR OFFICE CULTURE
Forget the HR policy handbook. Culture is not what is written, but what is lived. The lunch table is where you see it in action when people let their guard down. Whose presence carries weight? Who solves the biggest problems? Who’s the silent star and who’s the loud show-off?
3.STRENGTHEN YOUR BELONGING
You will be at your best after you belong to your team. At the table, you are not just sharing food, but also building trust. Relationships built over lunch will become your emotional buffer and professional safety net. You will find it easier to contribute once you have connected with your colleagues.
4.YOUR FIRST BONDS
Lunch is a social leveller. Whether it is a senior leader or a junior designer, everyone shares the canteen table. The small shared moments create the first bonds and connections of your career. These relationships lead to mentorship, support or referrals down the line.
5.PRACTISE SOFT SKILLS
Are you an introvert learning how to fit in, or an extrovert wanting to improve your small talk? Lunch is your daily, lowrisk social gymnasium and workout. These soft skills will move your career forward faster than your technical chops.
THE WRITER IS FOUNDER SALARYNEXT.COM, A JOB LOSS ASSURANCE FIRM, AND AUTHOR OF GET HIRED IN 30 DAYS.
‘On time’ is your reputation
If you don’t show up on time, it doesn’t matter which college you attended or how much you scored. Punctuality is your calling card. ‘I’m not a morning person’, ‘The train was late’, or ‘I’m stuck in traffic’ are not acceptable excuses. Be early to office and interviews, be prepared in meetings, and be available when your team needs you. Stay back for your teammates. Help beyond expectations. Remember that you can either clock your attendance or build a reputation forged in small, consistent acts.
Say ‘yes’
The fastest way to get noticed is to raise your hand when others look away. Volunteer for work outside your role definition. New hires often cling to their job descriptions. Don’t. ‘That’s not my job’ is a phrase that blocks learning and shrinks careers. A fixed definition locks you in a box while you build real value outside it. When you say ‘yes’ to chaotic tasks, boring coordination, grunt work, and grey zones, you earn trust, the currency of success.Help before you are asked
Your role isn’t just to deliver, but to get noticed. Is someone overloaded? Volunteer. See your boss struggling with a deadline? Offer to draft the report. Do at least one unasked favour each week. Whether a small one like correcting a slide deck or summarising a call, these tiny acts of initiative are what people remember.Watch your words
Your words travel far. Some should never be spoken, especially in your first year. ‘No one told me’ sounds like you are disengaged or couldn’t care less. ‘I thought someone else was handling it’ sounds like blame-shifting. ‘Between us…’ is like gossip. Casual comments in the cafeteria will echo across departments. Instead, speak with ownership. Things will go wrong, and when they do, show up with maturity and credibility, and say, ‘Let me see what I can do.’Your boss’s world
Your boss isn’t your friend, therapist, uncle or campus senior. How you deliver to your manager’s priorities will impact your growth. Are you able to deliver before deadlines, match their work style and make life easier for them without being a sycophant? Observe how they work. Don’t bring problems without thinking through suggestions. Ask for feedback and act on it quickly. Your manager doesn’t owe you mentoring. Until you earn it.Obsess over details
It is tempting to think and talk the big picture in your first job. However, master the small stuff first because it will speak the loudest. Sloppiness is a red flag. Check your e-mail thrice before you send it. Fix typos and format neatly. Send your updates and reply on time. Get the versioning right and follow the escalation protocols precisely. Every small act done correctly helps you earn the twin badges of respect and reliability.Ditch the student mentality
There is no final exam to cram up for, and no bell curve that adjusts to your competition. At work, you are judged every single day. Every e-mail, meeting and casual conversation adds up on your score card. No one will chase you for effort. Either you deliver on time, or you don’t. Either you grow on your own initiative, or you fall behind. There is no certificate. You can stay relevant and move ahead if you are your own learning engine. Read. Observe. Ask. Stretch. Do it!Choose your circle, choose your trajectory
There’s truth to Jim Rohn’s advice: You are the average of the five people you spend most time with. Offices, like college, have groups that hang out. Stay clear of the chronic cribbers and gossipers. They will welcome you to join their tribe, but they will cost you your career. Gravitate towards those who finish work well, help others, and ask the right questions. Energy is contagious. So is apathy. The time you spend with successful professionals lets you imbibe their mindset, habits and attitude faster than you realise.Daily growth log
Forget productivity and time management apps. Every evening, write down three points in a single document or in a WhatsApp group, to yourself. What you learnt today. What challenged or surprised you. What will you do better tomorrow. This two-minute habit builds self-awareness and momentum. A few months later, this simple document becomes your script for your appraisals, interviews as well as your own reflection and clarity. Growth doesn’t come from experience alone, but from processed experience.Be-do-have
Most of your peers will get the sequence wrong and will chase the dream role, which they hope will make them look successful. There is no such thing as a dream role because every year you evolve as a person and no role matches that.Instead, become the person who can thrive and grow in every role. Be the person. Do the actions. Get the results. Start by showing up. Stay curious, speak well and help freely. Chase learning and learn fast. The working world does not give you marks. They give you trust, and that takes time, effort and intention.
LUNCH LESSONS: EAT WITH OTHERS
1.HIDDEN MENTORSHIPSkip the solo desk lunch. Sit with someone new every week. Your lunch hour is probably the most important meeting of the day. Here, colleagues may talk about what’s going on, from power dynamics at work to your manager’s quirks to the team’s unwritten rules. This casual sitdown buys you clarity, confidence and free mentoring.
2.KNOW YOUR OFFICE CULTURE
Forget the HR policy handbook. Culture is not what is written, but what is lived. The lunch table is where you see it in action when people let their guard down. Whose presence carries weight? Who solves the biggest problems? Who’s the silent star and who’s the loud show-off?
3.STRENGTHEN YOUR BELONGING
You will be at your best after you belong to your team. At the table, you are not just sharing food, but also building trust. Relationships built over lunch will become your emotional buffer and professional safety net. You will find it easier to contribute once you have connected with your colleagues.
4.YOUR FIRST BONDS
Lunch is a social leveller. Whether it is a senior leader or a junior designer, everyone shares the canteen table. The small shared moments create the first bonds and connections of your career. These relationships lead to mentorship, support or referrals down the line.
5.PRACTISE SOFT SKILLS
Are you an introvert learning how to fit in, or an extrovert wanting to improve your small talk? Lunch is your daily, lowrisk social gymnasium and workout. These soft skills will move your career forward faster than your technical chops.
THE WRITER IS FOUNDER SALARYNEXT.COM, A JOB LOSS ASSURANCE FIRM, AND AUTHOR OF GET HIRED IN 30 DAYS.
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